If you were recently engaged over the holidays, congrats to you and your new fiancé! For many brides, after a few days or weeks the “glow” of engagement begins to wear off once the reality sets in…you have to plan a wedding! Read these first 11 to-dos to get you started and help you manage the stress.

Also know that you’re not alone when it comes to feeling overwhelmed after your engagement. Join the conversation with other new brides on our message boards who are feeling the strain of their new status:

> Read the thread

> Read the thread

> Read the thread

Good luck new Knotties, and happy planning!

> 10 Things No One Tells You About Getting Engaged

> Get Organized With Your Personal Wedding Checklist!

> Chat With Other New Brides and Post Your Proposal Story