There’s been quite a bit of controversy over on the planning and etiquette boards about “honeymoon jars” and whether displaying one at the wedding on the gift table is clever or just plain tacky.

One commenter says “I think that is a disgusting thing to do.  It is really rude and would probably offend a lot of your guests and have them commenting behind your back.”

What do you think?

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