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		<title>A Marriage Proposal Out Of Pushpins!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Mar 2013 22:08:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Samantha Roberts</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s one we&#8217;ve never heard before: Groom-to-be James Jaramillo proposed to his girlfriend of three years, Anne Mudlaff, by creating a custom piece of art resembling her face &#8212; made entirely out of pushpins! According to the video, he used 16,500 push pins to create the masterpiece and it took him a whopping 64 hours...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.theknot.com&#038;blog=33417921&#038;post=22509&#038;subd=xotheknot&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xotheknot.files.wordpress.com/2013/03/artproposal.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>Here&#8217;s one we&#8217;ve never heard before: Groom-to-be James Jaramillo proposed to his girlfriend of three years, Anne Mudlaff, by creating a custom piece of art resembling her face &#8212; made entirely out of pushpins! According to the video, he used 16,500 push pins to create the masterpiece and it took him a whopping 64 hours to create it. Watch the proposal video to see his masterpiece come to life and that beautiful engagement ring! (Congrats you two!!!)</p>
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<p>&gt; <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engaged/marriage-proposals/articles/best-wedding-proposal-videos.aspx" target="_blank">See more of the best wedding proposal videos ever </a></p>
<p>&gt; <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engaged/engaged/articles/engagement-party-planning-101.aspx" target="_blank">Engagement Party Planning? Get the 411 here! </a></p>
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		<title>10 Things No One Tells You About Getting Engaged</title>
		<link>http://blog.theknot.com/2012/12/11/10-things-no-one-tells-you-about-getting-engaged/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2012 15:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Black</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[No matter how long you and your fiance dated or how many times you&#8217;ve been a bridesmaid in your friends&#8217; weddings, there are some truths you just don&#8217;t find out about until you get engaged. 1. You&#8217;ll have a big zit on your chin the day he proposes. Okay, maybe you won&#8217;t (or didn&#8217;t). But the...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.theknot.com&#038;blog=33417921&#038;post=15195&#038;subd=xotheknot&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xotheknot.files.wordpress.com/2012/12/romantic.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>No matter how long you and your fiance dated or how many times you&#8217;ve been a bridesmaid in your friends&#8217; weddings, there are some truths you just don&#8217;t find out about until you get engaged.</p>
<p><strong>1. You&#8217;ll have a big zit on your chin the day he proposes.</strong></p>
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<p>Okay, maybe you won&#8217;t (or didn&#8217;t). But the point is that whatever fantasy proposal you had dreamed up (at the most romantic place in the world, wearing the most perfect dress, with the best hair and complexion you&#8217;ve ever had) isn&#8217;t reality.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> Your proposal story &#8212; whether it happened on the couch in your PJs with no makeup on, or in the middle of the Caribbean in a hot swimsuit &#8212; is more important (and special) than that fantasy proposal you might have had in your head. Why? Because it&#8217;s your story and no one else&#8217;s.</p>
<p><strong>2. You won&#8217;t be able to stop staring at your hand.</strong></p>
<p>Maybe you went ring shopping together and picked it out yourself, or maybe it was a total surprise. Either way, there&#8217;s a big difference between imagining it on your hand and actually seeing that brand-new shiny ring on your finger.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> Everyone is going to want to see the ring, so get a manicure (and be careful gawking at your hand while driving or crossing busy intersections!).</p>
<p><strong>3. You&#8217;ll have to tell your proposal story a million times.</strong></p>
<p>As soon as you get engaged, one of the first questions people will ask is how he proposed. Get used to it. Telling and retelling the story is part of the fun of being engaged.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> To make it easier on yourselves, write down your proposal story (put it on your wedding website and in your online wedding planner) and send friends and family the link so that they can get the full details.</p>
<p><strong>4. People will ask you about a wedding date and location before you&#8217;ve had a chance to even think about it.</strong></p>
<p>You know how it goes: Everyone is excited. But before you&#8217;ve even had time to sign up on TheKnot.com and start your checklist, your family and friends are already asking for details.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> If you have no idea where and when the wedding will be, come up with a blanket statement you can use whenever someone asks. Say something like, &#8220;We&#8217;re so excited just being engaged right now. I&#8217;m sure there will be plenty of time to figure out the logistics in the coming months.&#8221; They&#8217;ll take the hint.</p>
<p><strong>5. There might be a few sours&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>There&#8217;s usually at least one friend or family member who may not come off quite as supportive or elated as the rest of them. If this doesn&#8217;t happen to you, be thankful, because you&#8217;re in the minority.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> A not-so-positive reaction to your good news is a reflection of that person (not you). Don&#8217;t dwell on negative feedback. Focus on the positive &#8212; you&#8217;re getting married!</p>
<p><strong>6. &#8230;But your best friends will be there for you.</strong></p>
<p>You&#8217;ll know the people you can count on. They&#8217;re the ones who post five-exclamation-point messages to your Facebook wall the minute you announce your engagement; they&#8217;re the ones who take you out for drinks the day after you get engaged to celebrate; they&#8217;re the ones who tell you they&#8217;re ready to help you with whatever you need.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> Lean on the friends who express excitement for you (and celebrate your newly engaged status often!).</p>
<p><strong>7. Recently married friends will suddenly become wedding planning experts and give you (oftentimes unsolicited) advice.</strong></p>
<p>There are plenty of reasons this happens. Some friends may be going through the &#8220;postwedding blues&#8221; and miss the excitement of planning their own weddings. Others may just think they&#8217;re doing you a favor.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> If a friend offers wedding planning advice (say, &#8220;You shouldn&#8217;t invite kids to your wedding,&#8221; or anything else that starts with, &#8220;You should/shouldn&#8217;t&#8230;&#8221;), take it in stride. Graciously accept it as a sign of their friendship (there&#8217;s no need to get defensive). If you agree with the advice, take it; if not, thank them and move on with your plans.</p>
<p><strong>8. You&#8217;ll watch wedding movies and TV shows differently.</strong></p>
<p>Whether you&#8217;ve seen dozens of Say Yes to the Dress episodes, or you wouldn&#8217;t be caught dead watching a &#8220;cheesy wedding show,&#8221; you might now find yourself a little (or a lot) more interested in wedding movies and shows.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> Rent <em>Father of the Bride</em>, <em>My Best Friend&#8217;s Wedding</em> and <em>Rachel Getting Married</em> &#8211; and don&#8217;t feel bad about sitting through and enjoying a TLC wedding special or two. This is one of those guilty wedding pleasures that you&#8217;re totally allowed to indulge in while you&#8217;re engaged.</p>
<p><strong>9. You&#8217;ll have a hard time not jumping into wedding planning right away and will find it difficult to &#8220;just enjoy being engaged.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Sure, you recognize there&#8217;s a long road ahead of you and there&#8217;s plenty of time to plan out a wedding. But after the shock wears off, the next natural step is to start working out wedding plans.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> It&#8217;s okay (and good!) to get started early &#8212; just be sensitive to him. He more than likely just spent a lot of money and time planning out the proposal. So give him a little time to relax if he needs it. A few things you can get started on right away: planning out the guest list (at least your family and friends) and documenting your proposal story.</p>
<p><strong>10. Your relationship will feel different (even if you&#8217;ve been living together for years).</strong></p>
<p>A marriage proposal is exciting, but it&#8217;s also serious. You&#8217;ve just agreed to commit to one another &#8212; for forever.</p>
<p><strong>Our Advice:</strong> Work out the nitty-gritty details you may have only touched upon when you were dating. Decide what you&#8217;ll do for holidays every year, whether you want kids, where you want to live long term. Make actual plans. Even if they change, it&#8217;s good to know where you both stand on the big topics. If you&#8217;re not required to through your church or temple, consider signing up for prewedding counseling, where you&#8217;ll be led through the process by a pro. Having worked out hard-to-make decisions together will make the wedding ceremony that much more meaningful.</p>
<p>&gt; <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engaged/engaged.aspx" target="_blank">Just engaged? Your first 10 to-dos!</a></p>
<p>&gt; <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engaged/engaged/articles/engagement-party-theme-ideas.aspx" target="_blank">8 engagement party themes</a></p>
<p>&gt; <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engaged/engaged/articles/10-wedding-blunders-to-avoid.aspx" target="_blank">Wedding planning blunders to avoid</a></p>
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		<title>Proposals Caught On Camera!</title>
		<link>http://blog.theknot.com/2012/12/07/marriage-proposal-photographers-photos/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2012 18:49:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Samantha Roberts</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One proposal trend we&#8217;re seeing everywhere is hiring a photographer to catch the big moment. Call them proposal paparazzi photographers if you will &#8212; either way, they make for seriously tear-jerking photos. &#62; Our favorite movie proposals &#62; Best places to propose at Disney! &#62;50 ways for your man to propose<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.theknot.com&#038;blog=33417921&#038;post=14906&#038;subd=xotheknot&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xotheknot.files.wordpress.com/2012/12/cut_promo1.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>One proposal trend we&#8217;re seeing everywhere is hiring a photographer to catch the big moment. Call them proposal paparazzi photographers if you will &#8212; either way, they make for seriously tear-jerking photos.</p>
 
<p>&gt; <a href="http://blog.theknot.com/2012/12/03/romantic-movie-proposals/" target="_blank">Our favorite movie proposals</a></p>
<p>&gt; <a href="http://blog.theknot.com/2012/11/08/disney-proposal-ideas-romantic/" target="_blank">Best places to propose at Disney!</a></p>
<p>&gt;<a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engaged/marriage-proposals/articles/50-romantic-ways-to-propose.aspx?MsdVisit=1" target="_blank">50 ways for your man to propose</a></p>
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		<title>My Mountaintop Proposal Story (Fashionista Bride)</title>
		<link>http://blog.theknot.com/2012/08/21/fashionista-bride-my-mountaintop-proposal-story/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Aug 2012 20:57:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Molly Wilson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It all started on Thursday when I was at work my boss came into my office and told me he had a crazy idea for one of our donor functions (I am a fundraiser and we are always thinking of creative things we can do for our donors). He told me that he had set...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.theknot.com&#038;blog=33417921&#038;post=8338&#038;subd=xotheknot&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xotheknot.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cake.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>It all started on Thursday when I was at work my boss came into my office and told me he had a crazy idea for one of our donor functions (I am a fundraiser and we are always thinking of creative things we can do for our donors).</p>
<p>He told me that he had set up an appointment for me the following afternoon at <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.theswag.com">The Swag</a>. Now for those of you who don&#8217;t know, it&#8217;s an incredible, beautiful, exclusive resort located in the mountains of Western North Carolina. I was thrilled at this idea because I had always wanted to go to The Swag, but you can&#8217;t even get on the property without an appointment.</p>
<p>The next morning my Mom and Sister helped me pick out a nice outfit for my meeting. I left the office around 3:00 and made my way up the curvy two and half mile road that led straight to the top of a mountain where The Swag is located.</p>
<p>The whole way up it was pouring  rain and I was not excited about being drenched for my meeting. When I finally got to the top the clouds opened up and there was nothing but beautiful sunshine (definitely a God thing:)). I entered the main lodge and greeted the woman who was supposedly going to be talking business with.</p>
<p>She proceeded to show me the various facilities and different options for hosting events at The Swag. After that she told me she wanted to take me to their famous view. I was thrilled but couldn&#8217;t imagine a view more beautiful that what I had already seen. We hopped in the resort&#8217;s old Land Rover and headed up to Gooseberry Knob. When I got out of the truck I couldn&#8217;t believe what I saw. It was the most beautiful pristine view of the great Smokey Mountains. You could see miles and miles of beautiful mountain backdrop; it was truly breathtaking. After taking it all in, the woman I was meeting with told me there was a small overlook she wanted to bring me to.</p>
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<p>I then proceeded to walk up this small wooden bridge not knowing the surprise that awaited me around the corner. When I turned the corner I couldn&#8217;t believe my eyes, Ben (the man of my dreams!!!) was sitting in a chair amongst one of the most beautiful views in the whole world. I knew this was the moment I had been waiting for for so long. He rushed over and enveloped me in a huge hug. I honestly can&#8217;t remember exactly what he said to me (still in complete shock) but I know it was beautiful and perfect. He then got down on his knee and pulled out the most incredible ring, my DREAM ring and asked me to marry him. I didn&#8217;t even wait one second before I screamed &#8220;Of course I will marry you.&#8221;</p>
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<p>At that moment, I was the happiest girl in the whole entire world. The day just got more perfect when I saw my precious sister hiding out in the woods snapping pictures and memories of this special time. We then spent the next couple ours reveling in our happiness and enjoying each other&#8217;s company. Afterwards we had a party at my house celebrating this happy time with our family.</p>
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<p>I couldn&#8217;t have dreamed of a more perfect proposal. To this day, I am still in shock that he pulled the whole thing off without me having a clue. Just another one of the many reasons i&#8217;m lucky to be marrying the man of my dreams.</p>
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		<title>The Honeymoon Period of Our Engagement (A Groom With A View)</title>
		<link>http://blog.theknot.com/2012/08/14/a-groom-with-a-view-the-honeymoon-period-of-our-engagement/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2012 21:07:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Schwartz</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few days after we’d told everyone we were engaged, we learned we hadn’t actually told everyone we were engaged. One of Evin’s cousins and two of my oldest friends found out via Facebook which left us scrambling. Ugh! This transgression necessitated several crow-eating phone calls, a lot of apologies, and a wee bit of...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.theknot.com&#038;blog=33417921&#038;post=7787&#038;subd=xotheknot&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xotheknot.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/clouds2.jpg?w=600" /></p><p>A few days after we’d told everyone we were <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engaged.aspx">engaged</a>, we learned we hadn’t actually told <em>everyone</em> we were engaged. One of Evin’s cousins and two of my oldest friends found out via Facebook which left us scrambling. Ugh! This transgression necessitated several crow-eating phone calls, a lot of apologies, and a wee bit of lying.</p>
<p>They were insulted. People hate us! Yay! We’re getting married!</p>
<p>In less acrimonious news, Evin adored her ring and wanted to wear it everywhere except at work where the nature of her job made doing so difficult. But almost anywhere we went: to drop off our laundry,  a quick trip for take-out, even late one night to the bodega to get ice cream &#8212; front door locked, halfway down the stairs &#8212; Evin would say, “I want to go back and get the ring.”</p>
<p>“For the 300 foot walk to the corner?” I asked her.</p>
<p>“The Bodega Guy doesn’t care we’re engaged.”</p>
<p>But Evin did.</p>
<p>And I loved that she loved to show it off.</p>
<p>And I learned quickly how an engagement ring would elicit wildly enthusiastic responses from her female friends. Running errands around our neighborhood, we’d inevitably run into someone she had worked with, they’d notice the ring, scream, and I’d be prompted on cue to tell the comical proposal story. The sun was shining everyday; it was perpetually 76 degrees, with not a cloud in sight.  This was the Honeymoon Period of Our Engagement.  And it was overflowing with good times, laughing and with wedding plans far, far off in the distance.  Or so I thought.</p>
<p>Every 1.473 days, and with no provocation whatsoever, Evin would just look at me and ask: “so, no DJ?”</p>
<p>“Huh?”</p>
<p>“No DJ at the wedding.  We want a band, right?”<em>  </em></p>
<p>The wedding plans were making a cameo appearance in our everyday lives.  It was bound to happen.  With engagements come wedding plans and with wedding plans come &#8212; well, I guess we’re going to find out.  And when Evin would say something remotely wedding plan-nerly &#8212; I’d take her hand, pull her to close to me, whisper in her ear that I loved her and how happy I was that we were getting married, and kiss her. And talk of wedding plans would be postponed for yet another day. But I knew I was only buying time.</p>
<p>At some point, someone would ask innocently, <em>have you set a date yet?</em></p>
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		<title>Do the Carlton Dance! Alfonso Ribeiro is Engaged</title>
		<link>http://blog.theknot.com/2012/07/20/do-the-carlton-dance-alfonso-ribeiro-is-engaged/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2012 17:45:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vi-An Nguyen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Best known as the straight-laced, Ivy League-obsessed prep Carlton on The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Alfonso Ribeiro is now engaged to his girlfriend, Angela Unkrich. Ribeiro reported the news on Twitter: &#8220;Hey everybody. I got engaged tonight to @angiesue224. Greatest day of my life.&#8221; Based on their tweets and photos, it looks like the pair...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.theknot.com&#038;blog=33417921&#038;post=5577&#038;subd=xotheknot&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xotheknot.files.wordpress.com/2012/07/alfonsoribeiroengaged.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>Best known as the straight-laced, Ivy League-obsessed prep Carlton on The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Alfonso Ribeiro is now engaged to his girlfriend, Angela Unkrich. Ribeiro reported the news on Twitter: &#8220;Hey everybody. I got engaged tonight to @angiesue224. Greatest day of my life.&#8221; Based on their tweets and photos, it looks like the pair got engaged on a boat in Tahoe, California and celebrated with a bit of bubbly. We can&#8217;t wait to see wedding photos and video &#8212; hopefully of the &#8220;Carlton Dance&#8221; being recreated on the reception dance floor.</p>
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<p>&gt; <a href="http://www.celebrityweddingbuzz.com/">Get more details about Ribeiro&#8217;s engagement (and many others) at Celebrity Wedding Buzz</a></p>
<p>&gt; <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/celebrity-weddings/celebrity-weddings/articles/celebrity-wedding-faceoff.aspx">Which celebrities had the best wedding dresses, cakes and bouquets? Vote here</a></p>
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		<title>4 Reasons Seeing The Five Year Engagement Might Actually Improve Your Engagement</title>
		<link>http://blog.theknot.com/2012/04/23/4-reasons-seeing-the-five-year-engagement-might-actually-improve-your-engagement/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 20:55:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vi-An Nguyen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Full disclosure: I got the chance to catch The Five Year Engagement early a few weeks ago (the movie hits theaters this Friday) and was lucky enough to chat with stars Emily Blunt, who plays the movie&#8217;s bride-to-be, and Alison Brie, who plays her sister, as well as costume designer Leesa Evans. But even if...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.theknot.com&#038;blog=33417921&#038;post=1400&#038;subd=xotheknot&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xotheknot.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/fiveyearengagement1.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>Full disclosure: I got the chance to catch <em>The Five Year Engagement</em> early a few weeks ago (the movie hits theaters this Friday) and<em></em> was lucky enough to chat with stars Emily Blunt, who plays the movie&#8217;s bride-to-be, and Alison Brie, who plays her sister, as well as costume designer Leesa Evans. But even if I hadn&#8217;t gotten all that behind-the-scenes access, I&#8217;d still tell you to go see this hilarious movie, and here&#8217;s why.</p>
<p><strong>You&#8217;ll recognize yourself</strong><br />
At its heart, <em>The Five Year Engagemen</em>t isn&#8217;t just about planning a wedding (although there are some fun venue and florist meeting scenes!). The film focuses more on how relationships &#8212; between the bride and groom, between the couple and their families, and between the couple and their careers &#8212; can change when two people get engaged.  &#8220;Things can ratchet up for sure [after a proposal],&#8221; Blunt says. &#8220;As soon as [main characters Tom and Violet] get engaged, things start to get more and more difficult, tense and strained&#8230;partly because of the pressure of planning and trying to make everything perfect,&#8221; Blunt says. Sound familiar at all?</p>
<p><strong>You&#8217;ll learn what not to do</strong><br />
The movie is full of funny wedding-related flubs (five years&#8217; worth of them!), and there&#8217;s a lot to learn from them &#8212; while you&#8217;re not laughing. Blunt&#8217;s best advice? &#8220;Don&#8217;t have too many cooks in the kitchen,&#8221; she says. &#8220;It has to be your wedding. It has to be whatever you want. A lot of times, people get married for other people &#8212; for your parents, for your friends, and everyone wants the the dress and the ring and the whole thing. But I really think that if you want to get married in your backyard, then you should.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>You&#8217;ll get some awesome fashion inspiration</strong><br />
With a Chloe engagement party dress, a Valentino wedding dress and bridesmaid dress, and lots of cute vintage- and thrift store-inspired looks in between, Emily Blunt&#8217;s character Violet sports plenty of outfits you&#8217;ll want to copy. &#8220;The engagement party dress was cream, so it said a little bit &#8216;bride&#8217; &#8212; but a little bit &#8216;quirky bride,&#8217;&#8221; says costume designer Leesa Evans.</p>
<p><strong>You&#8217;ll get a much-deserved break</strong><br />
If you needed an excuse to take a night off planning and schedule a date night or outing with your bridesmaids, this is it. I was laughing all the way through the movie, and if you loved <em>Bridesmaids</em> or <em>Forgetting Sarah Marshall</em>, you probably will too. &#8220;The sound guy holding the microphone was laughing so hard during a scene that he farted twice,&#8221; Blunt says. &#8220;So we decided that this was the barometer of whether something was funny or not &#8212; if we got farts out of the crew.&#8221; Check out the trailer, and Tom and Violet&#8217;s wedding blog, on the <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thefiveyearengagementmovie.com/" target="_blank">movie&#8217;s official website</a>.</p>
<p>&gt; <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/planning-a-wedding/articles/greatest-wedding-movie-moments.aspx">See the top 10 movie wedding moments of all time</a></p>
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