Engaged & Confused

Hello fellow Knotties! Welcome to Engaged & Confused. Have you been planning your wedding on an inspiration board (or in an old-school binder) since before you met your mate? Not me. Newly engaged, I'm equally inspired and overwhelmed by the options out there. This blog will chronicle my wedding planning, from venue (HOW MUCH per head?) to vows (should I say "I do" to writing my own "I dos"?). Wish me luck!

How I (Sort Of) Lost Weight For My Wedding

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Are you trying to lose weight before your wedding? Welcome to a very large club. When I got married a few months ago, I wanted what all of us want—to look like myself, but my very best self. Like many people getting married, I was working full-time while planning which meant finding time for working... read more

5 Mistakes We Made With Our Wedding Invitations

Traditional wedding etiquette books will tell you that you should send your wedding invitations six to eight weeks before your wedding. Like most brides, I didn’t want to inconvenience my guests (by rushing them to respond) so I was determined to get those suckers out on time. And we made the deadline -- but just barely and... read more

What Registry Items Are You Most Excited To Open? Here Are My Top 5

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Did you enjoy registering? I had mixed feelings about it. I'll admit that I was overwhelmed at committing to color schemes for everything from cast iron pots to stand mixers all in one weekend. But then, who doesn't love getting gifts? One of the more unexpected joys of being engaged has been watching as guests start... read more

I’m Wearing My Twin Sister’s Wedding Dress — Here’s Why

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Have you found your wedding dress yet? If so, how long did it take you and how many did you try on? Luckily, I “chose” my own almost four years ago, long before I was planning this party. From the moment my sister said “you have to wear this dress when you get married!” I... read more

Have You Ever Joked About Eloping? (We Did)

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I’ve come to believe that there's a point in the wedding planning process that every single engaged couple says, “Let’s just elope.” This first time came for us just a few weeks in. I made the perhaps ill-advised decision to schedule eight reception venue visits for my future husband and I within 48 hours of... read more

How Often Do You Clean Your Engagement Ring?

How long did it take you to get used to wearing "The Ring?" A week? A month? For me, it was almost immediate. The moment I started wearing it, it felt like I had always worn it. It belonged to my great-grandmother and I love that it has some family history. And the first few... read more

I Sort Of Hate The Word Fiance

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How do you introduce your soon-to-be-spouse? Fiancé is the obvious choice. The definition, according to Merriam-Webster, refers to someone soon to be married. (If you’re interested, fiancé refers to a man who’s about to be married, and fiancée to a woman who is soon-to-be wed. Who knew?) But to me, no matter how you spell... read more
Escort cards are extremely easy to personalize and an excellent way to bring in your wedding day colors -- from calligraphed seating cards set atop a textured linen to apples tagged with each guest's name or small personalized bundles of lavender tied off with string. Other ways to display escort cards: Pin them to a clothesline, post them on a board covered in color-coordinated ribbon, or incorporate them into your cocktail hour using personalized stirrers tagged with guests' names.
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